by STUEY THE DRAGON
I just recently got offered a job at the local hospital as a surgical intern. It is a really stressful working environment to say the least. There is a constant flow of trauma patients in and out of the hospital, most of which are from gruesome accidents. I am starting to see a lot of things I never thought I would see in my life, and I am emotionally drained from it. I get approximately three hours of sleep each night, and most of that is on my work breaks since I am constantly on call. I slept with my boss the night before my first shift and a lot of my coworkers have been getting into terrible accidents, I am starting to lose all sense of emotions because of it. Liquor is the only way I can make it through the day anymore. Stuey, what’s good?
I am not sure if you realize this, but you just described the plot of Grey’s Anatomy. But it’s okay because same.
I’ve (unfortunately) developed something of a small (huge) crush on my best friend. I kind of think he is into me, too, but I am not entirely sure; we have always had a flirtatious relationship. But I am afraid to do anything about my feelings. What if he doesn’t have feelings for me? What if he does? Then what do I do? Should I date him? What if it doesn’t work out? Will I lose him? He has basically the worst track record with girls ever, and I am a “serious, long relationship or GTFO” kind of girl. I just don’t know what I should do. Stuey, what’s good?
Oh honey. You got a storm a brewing. Have you ever considered selling your life as a concept for a Friends reboot because this belongs on Netflix. But in all seriousness, telling him about your feelings are worth a shot. If he doesn’t feel the same then just tell him not to worry because you will get over him eventually, he’s not THAT great. But if he does, then you’ll get to date your best friend, and isn’t that the end goal anyway? If you two are best friends, then I am assuming that he has been by your side for a while now, and you never know: you could be the one to break that player streak. No matter what happens, I wish you the best!
In the past few days, I have been noticing that everything my really close friend does has been annoying me. I have no clue why he has been getting on my nerves so easily and it is bothering me. I used to be very depressed in high school and I got very irritable, especially during stressful situations. I do not want to slip back into my old ways but I don’t know how to prevent that. Stuey what’s good?
This is very common when you spend a lot of time with someone. I would suggest taking some time to yourself. Expand your relationships to other people. Hang out with some of your other friends, or go out and meet some new people. It is normal to get irritable when you are around the same people for an extended period of time. Just take some time to yourself and participate in activities that you enjoy. Do whatever it takes to not blow up on everyone around you; that never solves any of your problems.